After years of writing about porn and having sex with plenty of women, I realized something. I’ve been doing anal all wrong. Just like me, so many guys get it all wrong. And I think it is because of porn. We watch some of the most skilled sex performers having anal sex in front of the camera. And they do it with the largest dicks. It is easy to make a wrong idea about the topic. That translates into failed attempts in the bedroom. Now, I’m not here to teach you how to have anal sex with your lady. Every woman is different, and she has her own process. What I want to do is talk about the difference between professional porn, in which skilled performers have anal sex, and homemade porn showing the real deal. Let’s see the differences!
Professional Anal Is More Spectacular
We must face the fact that anal in professional porn is more spectacular. First of all, it’s all about the size. The tools that male pornstars are packing are massive, and they allow for an angle of penetration that helps the camera get a better view of what’s going on between the butt cheeks of your favorite pornstar. But at the same time, the female pornstars get proper training and preparation for the big moment. They do need a lot of warm-up for those massive dicks. Some of them even take painkillers to make sure they’re not hurting that much, especially during double penetration scenes. And then there’s the issue of douching. Most pornstars don’t eat for a day or two before the shooting, and they do a total cleanse back there. That’s why anal in premium porn movies look so glamorous.
Amateur Anal Can Be Clumsy
Amateur anal will help you get a real idea of how anal sex goes in real life. You’ll often see that anal in home porn is a lot more chill than what you see in premium porn movies. The sex is not as wild. Or when it is, the ladies are screaming. Surely, there are ladies out there who know how to enjoy a good anal sex experience. But those ladies are rare, and when you find one, you should marry her. However, I do enjoy a girl who screams and backs away while she is getting ass fucked. The painal kink is way more enjoyable in amateur porn. That’s because you know it is real and you know that the girl getting ass fucked is doing it for the love of the game, not for the money.
Professional Anal Can Be Over The Top
The one issue I have with professional anal porn is that it creates unrealistic expectations for men. I, too, was in that situation. I thought that I could just pull out of the pussy and enter the booty. But that’s not how things work. When you’re having anal sex, you need to communicate with your partner. You need to warm her up. I always recommend an anal experience only after her first orgasm. And she needs to be in the mood for it if you want to have an experience that’s pleasurable for both of you. The ovulation period of her cycle is the ideal time to try anal, at least for the first time.
Amateur Anal Can Be Genuine
If you want to learn how to have anal sex, I do recommend watching a lot of amateur porn. And I mean the real amateur porn, not the new semi-amateur content from OnlyFans. You need to study the women and see what works on them. Surely, women are different, and they have different things that make them happy in bed. But there will be some particularities that will help you identify what could work for your lady.
